Martha KauppiDesire Discrepancy is Actually NormalEvery year, I reach out to all the therapists on my mailing list and ask them what sex-related issues they struggle the most with in the…Oct 29Oct 29
Martha KauppiUnderstanding Developmental Vs. Behavioral ChangeWhy are my clients struggling to achieve their goals?Sep 17Sep 17
Martha KauppiWhat Really Matters When Opening UpLearn about the importance of process vs. contentMay 21May 21
Martha KauppiHow To Pick A PartnerHere’s a trap I see people fall into all the time during the early stages of dating: They think in terms of making their date like…Jan 9Jan 9
Martha KauppiSupporting Your Clients in Acting RelationallyLast time, I wrote about what it means to act relationally. This essential relationship skill is what allows us to resolve impasses–which…Nov 23, 2023Nov 23, 2023
Martha KauppiResolving Disagreements? The Power of “Acting Relationally”Finding the interplay between your partner’s desires and your ownNov 10, 2023Nov 10, 2023
Martha KauppiDesire Discrepancy in the Early Parenting Years, Part TwoThe Higher Desire Partner’s SideOct 13, 2023Oct 13, 2023
Martha KauppiDesire Discrepancy in the Early Parenting YearsThe lower-desire partner’s sideSep 8, 2023Sep 8, 2023
Martha KauppiWhy “bringing the fun” is key to therapyJoy, juiciness, and motivation!Aug 15, 2023Aug 15, 2023